5 Sexual Blunders Women Often Make

Before we open a big fat can of worms here lets make it perfectly clear that women and men both make mistakes in the sexual relationship. However, we are focusing on 5 of the sexual blunders women often make. Sex is a two-way street and it takes participation by both in the relationship to make it work, but we all need to own up to our own responsibilities in the relationship. Here are 5 blunders women often make about sex.

1. Some women get disappointed when men ask them to try something different

As a woman you are not obligated in anyway or fashion to consent to every sexual suggestion your partner puts on the table. However, it is good to be open minded about something if it does not violate your beliefs. If he asks you to do something you are not comfortable with it is best to calmly tell him why you would rather not participate. Communication is key.

2. Some women think men always want sex

Just like every woman is different, so is every man. The pressures of life can be enough to kill anyone’s libido on any given day. Men are not immune to this. Women need to get past the stereotype that suggest that all men need is a place and time to get it on. Men have feelings too. They might not show it as openly, but they can get as moody as any woman.

3. Many women fail to give directions to their lover

If you are not enjoying sex with your man you could be partly responsible. Although men enter the world through a vagina it does not mean they are born experts on the subject. Men learn about the vagina and how to please women through experience. They tried something at one time or another and it worked; so they use it again. Women need to provide a little direction and let their partner know what it lighting their fire. It will lead to a better sexual experience. You don’t have to hurt his ego, just let him know what you like.

4. Women tend to dwell on their appearance during sex

When women spend too much time stressing over their appearance during sex it is taking away from their focus on that elusive orgasm. Women need to allow themselves the opportunity to achieve the orgasm by placing their focus where it should be during the act, and that is on pleasure. Keep in mind that attitude can be just as sexy as a body.

5. Many women don’t want to make the first move

There are many women that won’t make the first move in sex because they think it makes them appear to aggressive. They think that good women don’t act like that and that it is the mans job to start the ball rolling. Listen up, men like to be pursued too. We like to know that women are as excited about having sex with us as we are with them. Both in the relationship should take turns as the aggressor to keep things spiced up.

Final Thought

As stated in the beginning of this article, men and women both make blunders in the sexual relationship. People are complex individuals and there are many diverse feelings involved. Communicate with your partner about your feelings and get him to share his feelings with you. It will lead to a more satisfying sexual relationship in the long run.

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