Take Your Sexual Relationship Up A Notch On Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is only a week away. If you must choose one day a year to truly add some sizzle to your sex life Valentine’s Day would not be a bad choice. Although any day of the year is a good day to be creative in the sexual realms of your relationship this special lovers day opens up a few doors to assist you.

When we first meet as lovers there is a certain anticipation, a sense of adventure that all to often fades as the years pass by. Some couples do a better job than others at keeping their love life exciting. As we age additional pressures tend to squeeze the sexual drive right out of the body and soul. There are kids, bills to pay, and jobs to do to survive in a dog eat dog world.

Stress, as we have discussed on numerous occasions, can suck the life right out of us if we are not careful. Although we know that sex can be a valuable stress reliever that greatly depends on if you stress about sex as well. Some couples have performance issues, they lack confidence, or they fall into the familiar groove of going through the motions.

Relax people. This Valentine’s Day throw all that mumbo jumbo out the window and create some magical moments in your loving sex life that will keep warming your heart for years to come. Both in the couple can go out of their way to make the day special and unique. Loosen up a little, make time for just you and your lover. Plan the evening out. The night does not need to begin with sex. Take a long walk together holding hands and bonding. Enjoy a romantic candlelit dinner. Make the day about the two of you and no one else.

Once home light candles in the bathroom and take a shower or bath together. Light candles in the bedroom and shake up the normal routine by bringing something different in person, or in product to the bedroom. A sexual massage could be just the thing. You should know your lover and what would boost their sex drive. Dress up, role play, do whatever it takes to make the most out of your evening.

The most important thing you can do as a couple is to make your partner your number one focus. You have one week to plan out your Valentine’s Day. Make it memorable. Make it passionate. Make your partner know how much they mean to you in and out of the bedroom.