The causes of psychological low female libido are numerous, but most often low female libido is related to depression, marital stress or relationship problems, life crisis, financial difficulties, religious repression, or some type of mental illness. But it is all a hormonal cause: testosterone treatment, are a major component of female libido. Testosterone levels decline about 1 percent each year in men, which may contribute to lower male libido with aging. Testosterone also declines with age in women leading to a decrease in female libido.
what causes low female libido
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Posted 3 years ago #
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There is also the male problem of lack of understanding, and in certain circumstances, the total lack of any interest in understanding what actually turns the woman on. This CAN be as effective as having zero sex drive at all.
I hasten to add that not ALL men are guilty of this, indeed a great many of them enjoy a VERY healthy sex life with their partners, with very little, or no problems at all.
However the old saying "My husband/partner/significant other doesn't understand me" has a great deal of truth in it. If men only took the time and trouble to discover what turns their partners on, there would be a hell of a lot fewer problems in the bedroom, and a hell of a lot fewer arguments both in AND out of it too.
And before you men start jumping all over me saying that women are equally to blame, I totally and completely agree with you, and will be posting a very similar post (but from the mens perspective) in the Mens impotence section.
I like to be fair to both sexes :)
If EACH party took the time and the trouble to sit down and TALK with their partners, about what they enjoy and more importantly what they DON'T enjoy doing, or having done to them.
By talking, I mean talking with a completely OPEN mind, no preconceptions as to what is, or is not, acceptable, and probably MOST importantly, DEFINITELY NO REPERCUSSIONS afterwards. this means no calling either partner a freak, (or any other expletive) just because he or she enjoys something that seems odd to you. This is a MUST PRIORITY #1 AGREEMENT.
If both partners enjoy the same thing, or in certain cases opposite sides of the same thing, that is FANTASTIC, if not, then name calling will certainly NOT help the situation.
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WOW!! Thanks for a really heavy post, Silver Tongue, heavy and, I must admit, on target!! Not what I expected from this site, it really is starting to amaze me with the depth of some of the posts here.
I will take it to heart, and hopefully reap some benefits of having a little bit more understanding of my partner.Posted 3 years ago # -
Thank you most kindly for the compliment fallen, it's nice to be appreciated, by both parties. :)
If I can bring a little happiness into peoples lives by giving simple advice then just try holding me back, you might have more success holding up a full grown bull elephant with your pinkie. :)
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If only MORE people had fallen's perspective, communication is the key to the majority of todays problems folks, not all I grant you, but the majority of them
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I agree with you 100% silver tongue. I couldn't have worded that better myself. Its true, we need to discover what each other enjoys. The problem is most people don;t want to take the time necessary to communicate with their partner.
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