1. Derek
   Member

   Impotence is a very common problem. They say one in ten men have a problem achieving and or sustaining an erection at some point in their lives.

   The important thing is if you have a problem that does not seem to be improving, you get help. You have read what impotence is, you have looked at the possible causes of it.

   Posted 3 years ago #

2. fred
   Member

   At LAST someone with a bit of common sense. I heartily agree with you Derek. At the FIRST SIGN of a problem GO GET HELP.

   This is not rocket science folks, you don't need a masters degree to know when something don't work properly, but the guy who you go to for help has one, so he knows what the hell he's doing.

   Posted 3 years ago #

3. Paul
   Member

   Male impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis.

   The causes of Male impotence may be both physiological or psychological.

   Physiologically: male erection is a hydraulic mechanism based upon blood entering and being retained in the penis, and there are various ways in which this can be impeded, most of which are amenable to treatment.

   Psychological: male impotence is where erection or penetration fails due to thoughts or feelings rather than physical impossibility; this can often be helped.

   My 5 Cents :-)

   Posted 3 years ago #

4. silver tongue
   Member

   There is also the male problem of lack of understanding, and in certain circumstances, the total lack of any interest in understanding what actually turns the man on. This CAN be as effective as having zero sex drive at all.

   I hasten to add that not ALL women are guilty of this, indeed a great many of them enjoy a VERY healthy sex life with their partners, with very little, or no problems at all.

   However the old saying "My wife/partner/significant other doesn't understand me" has a great deal of truth in it. If women only took the time and trouble to discover what turns their partners on, there would be a hell of a lot fewer problems in the bedroom, and a hell of a lot fewer arguments both in AND out of it too.

   And before you ladies start jumping all over me saying that men are equally to blame, I totally and completely agree with you, and will be posting a very similar post (but from the ladies perspective) in the Ladies Libido section.

   I like to be fair to both sexes :)

   If EACH party took the time and the trouble to sit down and TALK with their partners, about what they enjoy and more importantly what they DON'T enjoy doing, or having done to them.

   By talking, I mean talking with a completely OPEN mind, no preconceptions as to what is, or is not, acceptable, and probably MOST importantly, DEFINITELY NO REPERCUSSIONS afterwards. this means no calling either partner a freak, (or any other expletive) just because he or she enjoys something that seems odd to you. This is a MUST PRIORITY #1 AGREEMENT.

   If both partners enjoy the same thing, or in certain cases opposite sides of the same thing, that is FANTASTIC, if not, then name calling will certainly NOT help the situation.

   Posted 3 years ago #

5. ivefallenandIcantitgetup
   Member

   I'll agree with what is posted here so far, not all impotence is simply the inability to "get it up". Sometimes, you just don't want to get it up. This may be do to stress, depression, or some sort of communication issues with your partner. Unfortunately, these issues can't always be cured by a simple pill. The solution often lies in talking with your partner, or resolving whatever the issue of conflict really is

   Posted 3 years ago #

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