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Male Self Concept and Small Penis Syndrome
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During June of 2007 I posted an article entitled, "An Anxiety Disorder, Small Penis Syndrome."
There has been an outpouring of comments about the article especially from men who complain that they suffer from small genitals.
This is an extremely difficult issue to discuss because it involves very real feelings of pain and suffering on the part of those males who believe their genitals are too small to satisfy a woman. This is an issue that strikes deep into the heart of male virility and sense of masculinity. That is the reason why, with respect to these men, it is important to look at some of the evidence from medicine about this issue.
A review of the literature on the topic of men and penile size and length reveals the fact that it is normal for men to under estimate the size of their genitals. This is so much so, that some medical experts believe that it is not psychologically abnormal for a male to believe that they have a small penis. Only when that belief becomes an obsession and interferes with performance will the Medical Experts consider this abnormal.
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Ladies should be aware, that this is an EXTREMELY sensitive subject for almost ALL men, whether they be well endowed or not.
Ladies who ridicule men for no other reason than they are "less well endowed than they like" frequently do not realize the extent of the psychological damage they CAN be inflicting upon them. The man can quite literally be psychologically scarred for life, and MAY even become suicidal.
Ok at teh time you may not care what happens to the guy you are insulting, indeed you may wish that he DID become scarred. BUT, and it's a VERY BIG BUT, ask yourself, truthfully would you REALLY and TRUTHFULLY, want to risk that man becoming suicidal, simply because you insulted the size of his manhood.
For those ladies who shrug this claim off thinking that it's so much garbage, as a qualified psychologist, I can tell you that in fact it is anything BUT garbage. Oh you may not even give it a second thought when you speak the insult, but the guy does BIG TIME.
So Ladies, before you insult the size of a guys manhood, THINK first. Then maybe just MAYBE, you might just be averting a suicide. Think on it ladies.
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Now for you guys out there who THINK that they are "Less than well endowed". First of all, I can tell you right here and now, it is NOT the QUANTITY of the manhood that most ladies go for it's the QUALITY. Or to put it another way, it's not WHAT you've got that counts, it's how you USE it to please her, that will really stand out in the ladies mind.
I happen to know of a "lady of the night" who told me quite truthfully that the BEST guy she had ever been with, had a minute manhood, but was EXPERT in ways to please a lady with what little nature had blessed him.
So NEVER despair guys, just learn how to please a lady with what nature blessed you. There are numerous books out there to help you, from the famous Karma sutra, to less well known publications. I would suggest that you purchase one, or more, of these publications, then read learn and inwardly digest the information contained therein.
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OK Guys, Sir Lancelot, started this discussion in a separate thread, now it's my turn to add my 2 cents worth.
Get with the program guys, and I do mean get with the RIGHT program. It's not the SIZE of the equipment that matters, it's WHAT the owner DOES with it that counts. It does not matter one iota whether your manhood is 2 inches, or 22 inches, although both measurements are extremely rare. If you do not know how to please a Lady, size does not matter.
As Sir Lancelot said in the other thread, if you don't know ASK. There is ZERO shame in ASKING what pleases a Lady, in fact, you will probably receive the Ladies heartfelt admiration for taking the time and trouble to discover what pleases her, instead of just assuming that SHE should be pleasing YOU.
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OK Ladies now it's YOUR turn, I've put the ball squarely in YOUR court, now it's YOUR turn to have YOUR say. Would you prefer a man who expects YOU to please HIM, or would you like a man who is prepared to please YOU, and if he's unsure as to how to accomplish that he's prepared to ASK you. Which man would you prefer ???.
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It seems to me that there is a very apt Latin phrase that applies here. "Caviat emptor" rough translation being "Buyer beware" my Latin's a tad rusty so the spelling might be a little off, but you get the general idea.
Take adverts for so-called "sex enhancement" drugs with the proverbial pinch of salt, unless and UNTIL they have been approved by th FDA or at least by one of it's legitimate bodies, and even then be VERY skeptical.
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OK folks, it's time to put an end to this fictitious myth. You do NOT, repeat do NOT need a penis the size of an elephant's in order to please a lady. Indeed there is medical proof that an excessively large penis can cause damage to the vagina, and its inner walls, so far from pleasing her, you may actually cause irreparable harm to the lady, and trust me guys, that, will NOT please her.
The way to truly please a lady, is in the technique, or to put it another way, it's not WHAT you've got, it's HOW you use it that counts. If you don't know HOW a Lady likes to be pleasured, the solution is VERY SIMPLE, ASK HER ! ! ! !
Trust me guys, a lady will be DELIGHTED to help you please her, there is absolutely no shame in asking how she likes to be pleased. Indeed I strongly advise it, because no two ladies are exactly the same, each lady likes to be pleased in a slightly different way, so unless you ASK the question, you'll NEVER find the answer.
I met a lady some time ago, who was on the point of turning lesbian, the reason being that EVERY man she had dated up to that point, was only concerned in what HE wanted, he didn't care one iota what SHE wanted.
She nearly fell off her seat when I asked her what pleased HER, she could hardly believe her ears that a guy was actually interested in what SHE enjoyed. She took me by the hand, led me through to the bedroom, and we enjoyed a night of truly unbridled passion the like of which is very rarely experienced by ANY guy.
When we finally succumbed to slumber, there was a look of complete and utter ECSTASY on her face, and guys THAT'S a look that is VERY RARELY seen on a lady. All because I ASKED her what pleased HER and did my best to oblige her. From the look on her face I would say that I succeeded, this was confirmed the following morning when she woke up.
We stayed together for several months until she was forced to move away due to work commitments.
So please guys get with the RIGHT program, learn how to please a woman, trust me, it's not rocket science.
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OK folks, I am new here, but I feel that I HAVE to include MY two cents worth here. I am in complete and total agreement with Silver tongue here.
It's about time that people stopped thinking that PILLS are the cure for EVERYTHING. WRONG, WRONG, WRONG PEOPLE, the best way to CURE the problem of being able to please a lady, is to take the time and trouble to find out what she LIKES. It's as simple and straightforward as that, no magic pills, no wonder drugs, no complicated contraptions, just take the time to ASK her what she LIKES.
This is NOT rocket science folks, and the results can and often are astounding.
I personally know of a guy in the UK who got to be friends with a lady who was known to almost every guy in the area as a "ball buster", one night he decided to "try his luck" but instead of just ASSUMING that he KNEW what she liked, he ASKED her, she had to ask him to repeat the question twice because she was so surprised that someone was actually BOTHERING TO ASK IT.
The resulting night of unbridled passion was one for the record books, and they stayed together for several months until they had to part for work reasons, but they still get together as often as they can.
So guys, if ever you wanted PROOF that it works, that little anecdote is proof for you, and if you want more, just TRY IT. TRUST ME, you won't be disappointed.
And as far as you ladies are concerned, come on Ladies, let's have YOUR input. Am I talking the truth here ?. Or just spouting so much hot air. Either back me up, or shoot me down ladies. Either way let the guys know. After all, isn't it in your own best interest to get BETTER SEX.
So TELL us what PLEASES you, not here tell us in the intimacy of your boudoir. :)
Just tell us here if ANY man has EVER bothered to ASK what pleases YOU, rather than just ASSUMING that he KNOWS. And if he ASSUMED that he KNEW, was he RIGHT ?. Would you LIKE to be ASKED WHAT PLEASES YOU ?. Would you LIKE the option to be able to TELL your guy what you ENJOY, and more importantly, have him take notice of it.
COME ON LADIES, HAVE YOU EVER HAD SUCH A GREAT OPPORTUNITY HANDED TO YOU ON A SILVER PLATTER ?.
It doesn't matter if you are sexually experienced or not, EVERYBODY HAS FANTASIES, and any lady who tells me she does not have fantasies is outright FIBBING at the very least. So COME ON ALREADY we KNOW you HAVE FANTASIES, It's up to you to TELL us guys what they are. I don't mean HERE, your fantasies are between you and your partner, and that's the way it SHOULD be. Just let me know if you AGREE with me, would you LIKE your guy to ASK what pleases you ?.
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OK Folks. This one is specifically directed toward the ladies. Have you ANY idea of the Psychological effects of telling a guy his manhood is too small, even if it isn't. OK so at the time you might want to insult him, but please ladies, enough with kicking us in the nuts. The psychological effects can be and frequently ARE catastrophic.
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BEWARE of going TOO FAR to the other extreme guys. Remember an OVER SIZED penis can actually INJURE a Lady, and I am quite certain that NO man wants to do that. If you are uncertain that this is true, simply check with your doctor, he will confirm the facts.
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Does size really matter? Technically, no penis is too small for a vagina. Most men have an erect size of 6 inches. You can definitely please you woman with this size but it will require extra work – particularly more effort and foreplay – to bring her to an orgasm. If you’re anywhere between 5 inches to 5.5 inches, or even above 6 inches, you might need to take a quality male enhancement supplement to boost your size.
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